I am sure your partner is always there for you, no matter if you are in a relationship or married. You should always show that you appreciate them, and what better way than to send them a romantic massage for your beloved. I know you both work hard, but it is important that you remember the little things they do for you. This blog will give you some special ways you can massage your partner using special type of massage oils. Guide you through the process and give you some romantic tips on what and where to touch.
Developing a Romantic Atmosphere
Clean, soft sheets and pillows should be used to make the bed or couch. You probably don't have a massage table at home if you're giving a massage, but that's fine! Choose a clean, clutter-free area and lay down a set of clean bedding for your partner to sleep on. Don't forget to grab one or two pillows for under their head, back, or knees if necessary.
Take 10 minutes to straighten up and put clutter away if the room isn't clean. If the area is tidy, you and your partner will feel more at ease.
Use two sheets: one for your partner to sleep on and one for them to cover themselves with at the start of the game.
Adjust the room's temperature to a comfortable level. This will be determined by your companion; if they are always cold, raise the thermostat slightly to make the space warmer than normal. If they're generally hot, lower the temperature to keep them cool and comfortable.
If you don't have much time, a space heater or fan can assist make a big difference in the room's temperature.
Set a romantic scene by dimming the lights and lighting a few candles. Turn off the overhead lights and replace them with candles to create a more relaxing atmosphere. Turn on a lamp if you require additional illumination. You might also drape a sheer scarf over a bulb to further decrease the light.
Light your partner's favourite fragrance candle for an extra romantic touch.
To avoid being disturbed, turn off your phones and any devices. If you don't want to switch off your phone, set it to "do not disturb" or "aeroplane mode" so you won't be disturbed during the massage. To avoid being tempted to check it, put it to the side or in a drawer. Request that your partner do the same.
Allow yourself to disconnect from work, school, and other obligations during this time so you may focus on connecting with your partner.
To create a relaxing and serene ambiance, play ambient music. Music with a quick or heavy beat should be avoided. Instead, listen to instrumental or ambient music to relax.
Check out whichever streaming service you use—many of them provide pre-made relaxation playlists or stations. See what's available by searching for "relaxing music" or "ambient music."
Other keywords that may help you select the proper music for the occasion are "zen," "yoga," and "meditation."
Before you begin, spend some time getting to know your spouse. You may share a bottle of wine or a relaxing bubble bath. Alternatively, simply hold hands and converse for a few minutes.
If your lover isn't aware already, inform them that you're organising a romantic massage for them. Before you start, they might want to shower or change their clothes.
Performing the Massage
Before you begin, rub a natural oil or lotion between your hands. Sweet almond oil, coconut oil, and jojoba oil are all fantastic choices for your partner's skin. Start with 12 tbsp (7.4 mL) and add more when your hands become dry. Before you begin, rub it between your palms to warm it up.
To give the carrier oil or cream a pleasant smell, add a few drops of essential oils. The scents of lavender, peppermint, bergamot, and sandalwood are all excellent choices.
Starting at the neck and shoulders, use lengthy strokes with soft pressure. Allow your companion to lie down on their stomach so you may focus on their shoulders and back first. It's important to remember that your purpose isn't to give your spouse a deep-tissue massage or to work out their aching muscles. It's to softly touch them all over and arouse their bodies.
Check in with your spouse to evaluate if the pressure you're applying is appropriate. They may want a more intense massage or less pressure.
Allow your hands to caress their flesh. Count slowly to 20 in your brain for each area you massage, such as their neck, left shoulder, right shoulder, middle of the back, and so on.
Massage their lower back for a while. Make sure you and your companion are facing the same direction when you stand or sit. Push forward toward the middle of their back with your hands flat on their lower back, near their hips. Massage this area for 20 seconds, but feel free to go longer if your partner enjoys it.
You might also give your lover a mild butt massage if they are comfortable with it. Starting at the top and working your way down to the bottom, softly apply pressure to your partner's butt. Rep the process on the other side.
After the massage, allow your companion to unwind and take their time getting up. Most likely, your partner will be in a deep state of relaxation and will not want the lights turned on or the door flung open as soon as it's over. Allow them to rest for a bit, and take advantage of the time to relax yourself!
Allow your companion to sleep if they fell asleep during the massage.